God is so good (though we don't always think so) for allowing us the trials that can make us better persons, even saints!As St Paul said, and St Therese and St John of the Cross, "Everything thing is a grace!"
Amazing how we miss things like that.
"Tristitia vestra vertetur in gaudium." (Your sorrow shall be turned into joy.) Sorrow may be present tonight, but joy comes in the morning. Thank you both for your very nice comments, and may God bless you.